Someone who is a little familiar with the stress The Bachelor's Jake Pavelka is feeling right now with the attention of the press is the last Bachelorette, Jillian Harris. "Back when I went through [the media scrutiny] — it was torture," Jillian tells OK!. "It turned me into a nervous wreck." OK! NEWS: THE BACHELOR'S JASON & MOLLY TO TIE THE KNOT SATURDAY! In the late summer of 2009, Jillian, 30, and her fiance, Ed Swiderski, 30, were splashed all over the covers of tabloids accusing Ed of infidelity, but she stood strong by her man and chose to believe his word over the alleged "other women." "Now we look back ... Read More >>